It has gotten out of hand to be honest. There are so many ladies whose nude pictures have leaked to the public because they were simply not smart. How many times does this have to happen for some of you to wake up? Almost every week ,there is a woman who is shamed by a jilted lover.
More women stand to be humiliated for as long as they give some of these useless men too much control over their relationships, lives and bodies. You have the power to reject any demands for your nude pictures and there is no amount of love that should blind you from the risks.
The emotional burden that comes with all these pictures being leaked can be too much for some of you to bear. It is not worth it. Keep your clothes on, at least for everyone’s sanity, for your dignity, your inner peace and even for the cold weather.
It is quite cold as you can see, so keep your bloody clothes on. Some of these men you confide in with your prized assets see no value in them .For them, it is just entertainment. When the fire burns out, you are history. Unfortunately, the intimate moments and foolish pictures you took will be used for leverage.
I understand new love is very interesting. Your hormones go up, pressure rises and somehow your blouse also feels the need to follow suit but be warned. Long distance relationships breed thoughts for sending nudes but harness other ways to keep your fire burning. Communicate as much as you can but fight whatever demons convince you to unbutton. Those nudes that you take innocently are the receipts some weak chap will have against you.
Relationships, however beautiful can end and some of them end really badly. And strange to note, the peeps who leak these photos are not always evil but sometimes they act simply out of impulse and hurt. We all deal with break ups differently. During bliss, do not let your guards down. I will keep reiterating until girls out there learn. Some of you believe you cannot keep a man if you do not lose your under garments. Well, anyone harassing you to send nudes does not deserve to be kept.
And by the way, guys let’s man up. Exposing your ex’s nudes because she left you is downright weak. You are letting us all down. We all have mothers and sisters so imagine if any of them was treated this way. Would that make you happy? Style up please.